Kiana  is becoming such a little helper.  She wants to help me do dishes, she  likes to help me with laundry, she likes to help out in the kitchen, she  wants to help bring groceries in from the car...  just to name a few.   But there are some things that she has just had to learn to do on her  own simply because I am not able.  I am often amazed by her balance and  coordination, maybe because mine is so poor.  If she wants a glass of  water she has to get it herself.  If I need help getting the carton of  eggs out of the fridge, and it’s within her reach, I’ll ask her.  This  may be a disaster waiting to happen, but no more than if I did it  myself.  
Normally  I will pour her a glass of milk at the table, but if I pour it at the  counter then she has to carry it to the table herself.   If she has food  left on her plate or in her bowl after her meal I ask her to carry it  carefully to the kitchen sink.  I could do it, but it’s an easier task  for her.  
I  was taking a new bag of chicken out of the freezer the other day  and  it was heavy so I had to set it down on the floor.  Kiana asked if it  was too heavy and wanted to help me.  I told her that it would be too  heavy for her and that I had to do it.  She then wanted to hold my hand  to help me walk over with the bag to the kitchen sink.  She's so  helpful, caring, and sweet.
When  she notices that I’m having difficulty walking or about to lose my  balance she’ll hold out her hand and say that she wants to help me.  
She has learned to become independent, and at this age anyway, she wants to help.